There was a time in my career where this would have been a big deal. It is not now.
I got a letter in the mail recently from one of the bigger real estate brokerages in town. It was to congratulate me on being in the top 5% of all realtors in all of the Bluegrass in 2024. I think the intent was really to get me to consider coming over to their firm, which isn’t happening. Thank you for the letter though!
I had no idea I was in the top 5%. I used to track that kind of stuff a long time ago. Many years ago I was in the top 1.5%. I guess that was quite an achievement but I only have one memory of that year. I remember being on the edge of a nervous breakdown from working every hour I was awake for every day of the week for every week of that year. I definitely did not feel I was at my best nor did I feel my best. I remember making eye contact with myself in the mirror one day that year while I was shaving. I saw a robot who had figured out how to sell houses. I was just a machine. I remember trying to convince myself back then that this somehow was the fulfillment of my dreams. I have always been good at seeing through lies, even when I am telling them to myself.
So much has changed since I used to care about where I stood compared to other realtors in Central Kentucky. The biggest one I guess is that I am now back to where I started. Not in a sales production sense, but in my mindset.
When I started in real estate, my goal was just to be my best. I felt like if I was always trying to do my best for people, if I was always trying to learn something new from every experience, if I truly cared for my clients, that success would follow. I did not need to focus on trying to be successful. I often think of things in an agricultural sense. If you want the fruit of a plant, you focus on taking care of the plant. The plant takes care of producing the fruit in response to you taking care of the plant.
Here are some examples of what I now consider success:
A client who bought a house with me and then I sold their old one told me how great I was at communicating with them. They said every time they thought of a question, I would let them know the answer before they asked. They also said they appreciated my wisdom and experience in negotiating the sale and inspection repair lists for both houses.
Another client who is moving back to the area from out of state told me that they have worked with 3 other realtors over the past few years and I was by far the best one they have worked with.
There are other examples like this of course.
So now when I’m shaving and make eye contact with myself, I see a guy who is making things just a little bit better for those around me.