Do you really need a Buyer’s Agent?

YES!! YES!! YES!!

I’m seeing a lot in the news that the future of real estate might do without the role of a Buyer’s Agent.

That sort of scares me. Not because half of my work is with buyers. It scares me because buyers need an agent, almost more than sellers need a listing agent.

Having cut my teeth in the worst market in all of real estate history, I can tell you first hand that a buyer doesn’t know if they have made a mistake in picking a house, or overpaid, until they sell their home. It has been a good market for so long that I think most people think all there is to buying a house is picking the one they like…….as if it is as simple as choosing which product to buy on Amazon. One day, every buyer will become a seller. Your home may be a noose around your neck and you don’t even know it yet.

This was a common scenario for me when I was called to list a house between 2008 and 2011:

Seller calls me to list. They say they paid full price in multiple offers to get their house in 2003-2005. They assumed it would always be that way when they needed to sell. Then I have to tell them their house is worth less than they paid and they really should have called me before they bought the place. I could have saved them not only money, but a lot of time, frustration and headache.

I frequently saw where a spouse was transferred here. Their home back wherever they were from was on the market. The spouse was living in a studio apartment here until their house back home sold. The family was separated. Nobody was happy. Trust me, you don’t want to be this buyer.

This is how a Seller’s Market works: EVERYTHING sells for top dollar and fast since there aren’t many options. This is how a Buyer’s Market works: ONLY the choice, Grade A homes in Grade A neighborhoods sell fast and for top dollar. Everything else goes for less. Have a house in a less desirable school district? Have a house with an awkward floor plan? Have a house with a terrible lot (Think steep driveway, no privacy, backing to a busy road, etc)? Good luck selling in a Buyer’s Market because every buyer can get that Grade A house. You need to have a big price difference between those Grade A homes and your home to entice a buyer.

Aaaaaaaand you need a Buyer’s Agent who can tell you these things BEFORE you buy a house.

Don’t be afraid. Just do it.

There is a lot of fear involved in real estate.

Fear of missing out. Fear of making the wrong decision. Fear of financial ruin. Fear of even making such a huge decision.

I see it every day.

One of the most common questions I get asked by those who are afraid of missing out or making the wrong decision is if it is a good time to buy.

I usually tell people that it is always a good time to buy if you are ready. The prices and interest rates of the past are gone. Nostalgia. The present is all you have to work with. Yesterday will always have been the best time to buy a house. Today is the second best. If you are not going to stretch yourself too far financially and you are 99% sure you will be in the house for 5 or more years, then today is when you need to buy a house. The sooner you get one, the sooner you can start building equity. The sooner it will be paid off too. The market can’t be timed. Other than the great recession, prices have historically always gone up. Trust me, one day in the distant future you will be telling young people how it was a struggle to make the $3500 payment on that $500k house you bought. They will be like “Wow, that’s what my cell phone bill is!”

Another thing I see all the time is fear of picking the wrong house. Often first time buyers or those who struggle with making a decision will want to keep looking at houses, almost as a way of not having to make a decision.

Here are some signs you might have found the perfect home for you:

  1. Your showing lasts longer than any other house you have seen. A house you are in and out of in 5 minutes is not the one. The house where the realtor is standing beside the front door after turning off all the lights and you still don’t want to leave…..well, that might be the one.
  2. You are comparing every other house you see to one, which is usually the house you didn’t want to leave in item #1.
  3. You are afraid of somebody else buying it out from under you.

When any/all of the above items happen, you’ve found your house.

I hope this helps somebody out there. I know fear is a hard thing to get past, but it is so worth it. I try to keep things simple. Really it’s all about finding a house you like, that will be a good investment and that you can afford. That’s it!

Need a neighborhood with some character?

Let’s face it, most neighborhoods feel like exactly what they are….a field stripped of all the trees, subdivided in a way that maximizes the number of lots, then sold to builders who build pretty similar looking houses.

Nothing wrong with that.

Often most neighborhoods are chosen by buyers based on location. What makes a location desirable might be a park, a school, shopping, proximity to their work, a road making for an easy commute.

If you are somebody who wants a neighborhood with a special vibe, here are a few that come to mind:

  1. Chilesburg-Sure, having Hamburg, Jacobson Park and the Interstate so close are nice. Buuuuut the layout of the streets, the neighborhood walking trail and several ponds are what makes this feel so special.
  2. Hartland-While nothing is super close to this part of the Tates Creek area, the beauty is that nothing is far away. Getting to Hamburg, The Summit, Fayette Mall, Downtown and UK are all pretty easy, which is one of my favorite things about the neighborhoods in this whole area. Hartland has such a special vibe that it could offer nothing more than the neighborhood feel and I would still want to live there. What makes it so special? The layout of the streets. It is one of the few neighborhoods in Lexington that doesn’t feel like it was designed to maximize the number of lots. Roads have gentle curves, all of the cul-de-sacs have landscaped medians. Even the entire main road has a landscaped median. All the tall trees that have grown over the past 40 or so years add to the ambiance as well.
  3. Willow Oak-This is one of my favorite neighborhoods in it’s price range. You sort of get it all here. Southend shopping, Shillito Park, great school district PLUS a little stone bridge surrounded by greenspace as the only way in and out. All the streets are lined with gigantic pin oaks.
  4. Chevy Chase & Ashland Park-You didn’t think I had forgotten about these two I hope. They are the most desirable and recognized neighborhoods in all of Lexington. They put the “Ohhhh” in their 40502 zip code. What creates the vibe? Well, you know its the trees, especially a street named Catalpa known for it’s leaves that turn a bright yellow in the fall.You know it’s for the variety of classic and beautifully maintained homes. But what really does it is the design of the neighborhood…..well, more so for Ashland Park. It was designed by some dudes who did a lot of well know landscape architecture projects across the country. They were the sons of the landscape architect credited for designing Central Park in New York City. I could google their names right now, insert it in this paragraph and impress you with the perception that I know everything. Just to be humble, I won’t.

There are others, but these are the ones that tend to come to mind the most.

Well Played Sir, Well Played….Sort of

After nearly 19 years in this business, you sure learn to read the signs. Watching what people do (or don’t do) can often tell you a different story than the one they are telling you with their lips.

I had a buyer interested in a property. We made a formal offer. It was verbally countered. Verbal counters happen. They can be a way of making the negotiations move along faster. They can also be used to “Not” formally counter. See, if a Seller formally counters an offer, they can’t accept another offer without withdrawing their counter. Sometimes a verbal counter is made to keep the other parties options open.

My Buyer decided not to budge from their original offer. I assumed the deal was dead.

A couple of hours later the Seller’s realtor texted saying the Seller maaaaay accept my Buyer’s offer amount if we could close in 3 days. I immediately told the other realtor exactly what my Buyer would do in response. We could not close in 3 days but could within 10 days.

Then I hear nothing.

This is when I start getting suspicious because normally, when a Seller and Buyer agree on a price, everybody usually get really motivated to make a deal work out.

Then I ask again for a reply.

I still get radio silence.

Then out of the blue, exactly what I suspected was happening came to light. There was another offer. The other realtor said another offer had been made which was better than the one my Buyer had made.

So here is what really happened:

  1. By verbally countering our offer, this agent kept our offer alive and could legitimately tell the other Buyer’s realtor that there was another offer on the table. This used our offer as leverage to get the best terms for the Seller from the other Buyer.
  2. By not replying to us in a timely fashion, it hedged the Seller’s bets because if the other offer didn’t work out, they had us as a backup plan.

Was there anything wrong in doing this? Yes and no.

I am not at all upset about the other agent trying to get the best results for his client. I do the same for mine. Kudos to him for this part of his actions.

The only thing I am salty about is that he made a counter and then ghosted me for almost two full days. I think he should have told me in a reasonable amount of time that there was another offer, or that his Seller was either accepting/rejecting/countering the revised terms I had proposed.

Why do new listings get so much attention?

I have a listing that got lots of showings the first few days on the market. It is now only getting 1-2 showings a week.

I have a new buyer who I have shown everything that is currently on the market. They haven’t liked any of them enough to pull the trigger. We are now just looking at 1-2 houses a week.

Notice a similarity? Both are not getting a lot of activity. Why? The seller has exhausted all the buyers currently in the market. They are waiting for new buyers to enter the market. The buyer has exhausted everything currently on the market. They are waiting for new listings to hit the market. This is how it has always worked, but all the waiting is because there is still a significant shortage of listings.

When there is a new listing that drops on the market, every buyer in that price range will come out to see it. For buyers, it is tough because they are one of those people coming to see the listing as soon as it hits the market. They need to quickly decide if they want the house or not. There is often not a lot of time to sit on the fence when it is a new listing. For sellers, this is your best chance to get multiple offers. It can be easy for a seller to assume they will always get that much traffic. I have had sellers turn down an offer during this period because they think they can get a better one later. They think they will endlessly get 4-5 showings every day. Then it dries up after about day 3 or 4 on the market.

The market is constantly moving. It’s like the sun. You can’t see it move. You just look up in the sky and realize it isn’t in the same place it was the last time you looked. There are new listings and new buyer entering the market every day. (I do realize the sun doesn’t actually move, the earth does. Think of this analogy more as how we refer to the sun setting or rising.)