I’ve lived in my house for just over 5 years.
My biggest complaints? I don’t have taller ceilings and I don’t have a lot of natural light.
What do I like about it? I’ve got lots of space. We have some empty cabinets and are no where near running out of room to store stuff. I’ve got more than average room to park cars. I’ve got a big lot with a lot of trees. I like that I sit sort of high on my street and have some open space I can see between and over my neighbor’s houses.
I also like that the master bedroom is upstairs. I don’t like it when the master is on the main level and is right off of a living space. I like to feel like I am tucked in far away from any possible noise or distraction when I go to bed.
I find myself always looking out the windows. I love watching the wind move tree branches. It is like the trees are dancing. I’ve got several peekaboo views of a golf course and a pond.
I like that I am on a dead end street about as deep in my neighborhood as possible. It is very peaceful except when the dogs behind me are barking.
The funny thing about all this is that none of my favorite things about this house were part of the criteria for the search.
Like a lot of buyers, I based my search on logical things: Bedroom count, square footage, part of town and price range.
I got some bonus things that were not part of that criteria. I compromised on some things too….like my 8 foot ceilings and lack of natural light due to all the amazing trees that block the sun.
Being a realtor for over 12 years, I know that often the logical criteria gets thrown out the window when a buyer sees a house that triggers something emotionally for them.
For me, I was willing to compromise as soon as I pulled up to the house and saw the landscaping and the wide front lawn. We were willing to do some updating after we saw the fireplace on the covered patio and all the trees in the backyard. (We are still willing to do updating….meaning it hasn’t happened yet, haha!)
Almost all my buyers end up buying a house that is slightly different from the logical criteria they tell me they want. And that is okay. It’s all about finding a place you love. Sometimes you don’t know what features you will fall in love with until you see them.